What do you do when aliens abduct you?

personally, it happened so many times that i just stand still. at first i was a little nervous but when i got back home my mom said it happens to everyone "like the chicken pox" she said. but then it happened again, and when i got back home she said, "did you have a fun time?" i dont know why the aliens keep abducting me and i think it has something to do with my mom! i just want the aliens to stop taking me away because after awhile i get homesick :( i think my mom doesnt love me i dont know